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| 11.05.2005 - 23.07.2012 |
This is Raja. No. This was Raja. It is frightening
how quickly ‘is’ can become ‘was’. It seems like only yesterday that he came
home, a frightened little puppy we picked up from the shelter. He was the
quietest of the litter, and perhaps that is what appealed to my son, then
twelve years old. Unlike his more boisterous siblings, he stayed at the far end
of the cage.
We came home, my husband, and I, and my son, and a
two-month-old baby – with a two-month-old puppy. Even the people at the shelter
thought we were crazy. Our dog is was just five days younger than our
baby. It was like having twins.
Tired, sleep-deprived, there were oftentimes I
grumbled at him for making puppy messes. (The yelling I reserved for my
husband.) He would go into his crate and look at me with huge puppy eyes. It
was hard to remain angry. When the tone of my grumbles changed, he would come
out of his crate, his tail wagging his body, sure that his transgressions were
forgiven, if not forgotten. After all, he forgave us ours!
Raja was a mixed breed – we had been told he was Beagle and Hound. He
had the Beagle colouring alright, but he was definitely 99% Hound. Then the vet
told us he thought Raja had a smattering of German Shepherd. Didn't matter; he was all dog.
He had been the friendliest, most loving, most
rambunctious little puppy ever; he grew up to be the friendliest, most loving,
most rambunctious large dog ever. We had been told he would be a ‘big’ dog.
‘How ‘big’?’ we asked. ‘Oh, about 50lbs.’ O-kay. We were okay with that
size.
Well, Raja didn’t know he was only supposed to
be 50lbs. He was 50lbs when he was six months old, and growing. He continued to grow. Finally, at about a year, when
he tipped the scales at 80lbs, he looked at himself and decided he was large
enough.
He was
large enough to scare most people. Yet, he never quite lost his puppyhood. When he stood on his hind legs to welcome
visitors, he towered over most people of average size. When there are large teeth at
one end, you tend to overlook the fact that his tail was wagging at the other.
Raja, however, thought everyone was his friend (with the exception of skunks,
racoons and possums) and that they had come home with the express purpose of playing with
him. As one friend said, he was the laugh-iest dog she had ever seen.
We played with him, and laughed with him, walked
him (or he walked us), grumbled at him, talked to him – he put up with all of
it; as long as he got food at the end of it. No, not kibble. People food. Rice
and yoghurt and sambar and chappati and fruits and vegetables and tandoori chicken and channa and sabzi and idlis and dosas –
he would eat that first; then he would delicately lick any liquid that was
left. Then, if he felt like it, he would eat the dog food. There was nothing he
wouldn’t eat. Hmm, no, he hated pasta.
Then, suddenly, almost two years ago, he fell sick.
So sick, he couldn’t get up from his bed. So sick, my husband came back home
from work so we could take him to the vet. We heard the dreaded word,
‘Lymphoma’. Then began chemotherapy – a protocol that would last 14 weeks.
Through all of it, Raja remained as good-natured as ever. He loved the hospital
staff, and they adored him.
When he went into remission, they cheered as much
as we did. When he remained in remission a year later, they
changed his monthly visit to a check-up once every two months. We rejoiced. Raja began
chasing squirrels again. The cat next door decided that taunting him just
outside the invisible fence was not such a good idea after all. Another skunk
bid goodbye to the world after an encounter of the close kind with Raja. He ate
and drank and sunned himself on our deck, barked at trucks, and greeted us with huge doggy woofs
when we came back home.
Then one day, he couldn’t get up. His chest was
distended, his breathing laboured. He sat patiently as we examined him, though
he must have hurt. We took him in to the hospital, at once. He had pleural
fluid – 700ml of it. They drained it, we brought him home. Six months passed,
and his lungs filled again. We drained it once more. 1.7l of fluid. Two months
passed. 3l this time. A week later, the fluid was back. 3.6l and they had to
leave 400ml behind, because they were scared of puncturing his lung. They began
to talk ‘generally’ about euthanasia.
We brought him back, groggy from the anaesthetic,
all bewildered, but happy to be home. It took him a day to recover from its
side effects, but he was perkier than ever. He chased the squirrel. He chased
the cat. He even chased a coyote yesterday. In the night, he couldn’t breathe.
By morning, he had worsened, his chest ballooning in and out as he
laboured to draw breath. He wanted to go for a walk, so S and S walked him. Until
he could walk no more. Then I picked them all up in the car.
We looked at him. Then we looked at each other.
Called the hospital and took him in. They talked of tapping the fluid, open
chest surgery, chances of recurrence... we took the only choice we had; a
choice that was in his best interests, not ours. He came out of the examination
room wagging his doggy tail, ready to go home. After all, that is what he
usually did. He was puzzled when we took him back, but trusting. We were his
family. He loved us.
We hugged him. Whispered how much we loved him into
his silky ears. We hoped he knew we were not betraying his trust. Then we let him go.
Home.
While we came back to an empty house. Alone.
